AUGUST 12 – DECEMBER 9, 2026
WELCOME

You are not here to find love.
You already found it.

You chose her. You looked at this person and you said, this one. I'm in.

Maybe you said it out loud. Or maybe you just felt it deep in your bones and locked in, building a life around the idea. Either way, you meant it.

Then at some point you realised that the choosing was easy. Maintaining the joy and passion? That takes work.

Your relationship becomes the mirror. The thing that shows you every part of yourself you've been avoiding. Every wound you thought you buried shows up at some point. You realise the parts of your father you swore you would never be have become an unconscious reaction.

And here you are. Two years in. Six. Fifteen. You love her. And you have moments where you can feel her completely, where the connection is so real it’s like you just met. And you have moments, perhaps more of them than you'd admit, where you look across the room and wonder if there is more.

You've read the books. You've sat in the therapist's office, or you've thought about it. You have watched yourself become a version of the partner you swore you would never be. You have apologised and recommitted and tried harder.

Nobody handed you a map.

Most men spend years blaming the distance on their woman. Her criticism. Her withdrawal. Her lack of desire. Her controlling.

When in reality, none of it is about her.

What if the relationship showed up exactly as it needed to, to force you to meet the parts of yourself you've spent a lifetime running from?

What if the parts of her that drive you a little nuts are actually highlighting the doorway to your liberation?

That's the work. Not fixing her. Becoming the kind of man who creates the kind of relationship you both long for.

THE TRUTH NO ONE TOLD YOU

Being a good husband is not a given. It takes practice.

You train. The way a martial artist trains. The way a musician trains. Repetition, discomfort, showing up again and again until the body knows it better than the mind.

And you do not do this alone. You do it with other men who can see you clearly, and a teacher who is deep in it with you.

We have no shortage of advice.

What we have a shortage of is training.

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STRUCTURE

Sixteen weeks. Four directions. One goal.

Devotion to being better men, better husbands, better fathers.

“Embody the depth that your woman is craving.”

DISCERNMENT

Not for every man. Not for every season.

This is for

  • Men who are partnered — married, engaged, or in long-term committed relationship

  • Men who have chosen, and are still choosing

  • Men who suspect their marriage could be the most important spiritual practice of their life

  • Men willing to commit to embodied practice, to do what is necessary to create the relationship of their dreams

  • Men ready to be seen and held by a small group of brothers

This is not for

  • Men leaving the relationship — this is not exit work or couples therapy

  • Men in active crisis — affair, separation, abuse

  • Men whose primary need is trauma therapy or crisis intervention

  • Men looking for a course they can binge in a weekend

  • Men who think the answer is to fix their partner

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WHAT IS INCLUDED

  • 12 group calls (90 min each) | Live practices, transmissions, hot seat coaching

  • Solo and partner practices, weekly applications and accountability specific to the state of your relationship

  • Guest teacher session with Sarah Warnaar | feminine embodiment and intimacy coach

  • A live partnership polarity ritual | One call where your partner joins for practice

  • A committed, guided semen retention practice

  • A guided sexual healing ritual for your partner

  • Lifetime access to recordings

TESTIMONY

The words of other men

  • Note: This testimony was taken from the last 30-day practice cohort.
    (Imagine after 4 months?)

"I've had premature ejaculation for ten years and I really thought that this was it for me. Just a couple of weeks of work and it has already completely transformed my lovemaking and what I thought was possible."

Juan Esteban

"My wife says thank you. She also said this was the first time she didn't automatically put her PJ's back on. She realized putting them on post-coital had always been a safety pattern for her. Until now."

Ben

"I held my woman fiercely in the chaos of her doubts and anxiety, with more calm and steadiness and direction than I ever have. She said, 'I don't know what the fuck you ate today, but it looks good on you.'"

Fish

"I feel fucking great. Clear, grounded, powerful, patient, focused. My relationship is in a big upgrade which I can attribute directly to this practice and to love itself."

Danny S.

"I've studied yoga and qi half my life, some classical tantra, and have worked with nervous system practices for years. A big fan of all that you're bringing in here… I've put the practices into my daily routine and I'm loving the extra time-space with the belly, dan tien, hip opening, self touch and massage."

Jacob O

"My kundalini was activated… I was making love to that state of being, and I was crying at the same time. It was a profoundly beautiful moment of healing, intimacy, and self-love."

Antoine

"The deepness of my own wounding that comes up this month. Every night since starting has been filled with dreams where I am diving deeper into my own sexual history and the wounding in it… I am now actively cleansing in my dreamspace and taking back my own power where I have given it away sexually."

Danny

"Incredible, deep and energetic sex — going for a long time and giving her multiple and continuous orgasms. She was surprised at the energy and presence I brought, said it was 'mind-blowing' compared to the last time we met."

Farhad

"I had a big amount of energy in my balls, which was quite uncomfortable. I massaged them, pulled them and did some breathing exercises. Then I got into my workday and channeled that energy into what I was doing. I had amazing sustained energy all day long."

Luc

"I came back to massaging my balls and started to feel the energy being released from there, like a gentle wave. That was one truly great experience to feel the energy and unexpected source of pleasure coming from there, without experiencing the depletion that usually follows ejaculation."

Julien

"This container feels so pure and so authentic. When you're walking a path of personal development it can start to feel like 'just another container.' But this is different."

Vishal

"The fear of rejection as well as the mother wound is quite rooted in my psyche. Through this work, I am working on the parts of mine that needed love so badly and didn't get it in the past."

Artūras

"I have actually been having a sharp pain in my nuts for the past 2 years, even went to the doctor for it but he didn't know about it and couldn't help. Very gently and carefully massaging has almost completely removed that pain."

Adrian

"I feel grateful for this group, for the practices, and for having a space where men speak honestly about these things. It is helping me see myself more clearly and trust myself more deeply."

Tim

"My reflections looking over the journaling this past four weeks show clear transformation and evolution. Why does the thought of releasing tomorrow feel almost emotional? Powerful stuff we have worked on!"

Nate

MEET THE TEACHER

Nic Warner

My first marriage failed.

I lacked awareness, emotional capacity, sexual vitality, purpose and leadership. I lacked the understanding of what a marriage actually asks of a man. I had love, and love alone is not enough.

The decade that followed was my work. Therapy. Plant medicine. Somatic training. Classical tantra. Polarity. Sexual alchemy. Shadow integration. And being in rooms with good men. Training with some of the best teachers in the world, to figure out how to be a better man, better lover, better husband, better teacher, better human.

My second marriage has since become the most consequential spiritual practice of my life. The fertile ground I get to raise our two boys from. My purpose is to live as an example of presence, depth, compassion, strength, and integrity. They will learn what a man is by watching me. So I keep practicing.

I built The Marriage Dojo for the man who is in his marriage (partnership) right now and knows something has to change. For the man looking for more passion. More love. More freedom.

I am still doing this work. Every day. With Sarah. With my sons. With myself.

There is no finish line.

FAQS

Questions you might be asking.

  • Couples therapy works on the dynamic between two people. This works on the man. The single biggest leverage point in a relationship is what one person brings to it. You change, the relationship changes.

  • Mostly no — and once, yes. This is a program for men to learn to be better men and subsequently better husbands. Your partner is not required for the bulk of the work. There is one required call during the final month, where partners join for live practice.

  • Recordings are available, with lifetime access. Live attendance is strongly encouraged for the hot seat work, but life happens.

  • The Husbandry is not crisis intervention. If you are in immediate crisis, please seek a couples therapist first. This work can be greatly beneficial in conjunction to other professional help. However some stability in the relationship is required.

  • It is better for you to let your actions speak louder than your words. To allow your embodiment of the teachings to become what informs her of the work you are doing. The moment you do not do what you told her you have been working on? Well. You can guess how that will go.

  • 20–30 minutes daily practice, roughly one 90-min call per week (live or recorded), and a weekly application in your relationship. Plan for 4–5 hours a week.

  • Because the partner is the dojo. The work assumes an existing relationship to practice with. Single men's work is its own beautiful path, but it's not this one.

She is, on some level you cannot fully see, praying for the man you are becoming.

THE INVESTMENT

€2,996

Founders cohort

€2,497

Pay in full

€749 × 4

Monthly Plan

This is the only cohort at this price before it increases.
One scholarship spot is available at significantly reduced cost — inquire if relevant.

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THE INVITATION

If any of this stirred something in you, you may be one of the men this is for.

Four months. The complete relational arts curriculum. Small-group practice. Daily reps. The guidance, training, depth and accountability your relationship is longing for.

Applications open July 22 · Cart closes August 5 · Cohort begins August 12, 2026