COMMITTED TO THE HEALING & EVOLUTION OF MASCULINITY
“ONLY ONCE WE STEP OUT OF OUR COMFORT ZONE TO EMBRACE OUR SHADOWS, CAN WE REALISE
THAT HIDDEN IN THE DEPTHS OF OUR DARKNESS, AWAIT OUR MOST PROFOUND GIFTS.”
MEN’S WORK
I deeply believe the woes of the world exist due to the wounded masculine. We live in a society that perpetuates this wounding with one hand and condemns its existence with the other. In a time of great change, as the old paradigm crumbles, our families, communities and society as a whole, yearn for heart led, ball connected, embodied men. That can both lean into their vulnerability, as well as stand up for their truth and what they believe in.
A certified transformational coach and rites of passage facilitator, I run men’s workshops and men’s intensives regularly across Europe.
BREATH WORK
The greatest ally you have for your physical, mental and emotional well being, is your breath. Your capacity to breathe properly, governs not only your ability to deal with stress and anxiety, but also how consistently you get sick and how quickly it will take you to recover once you do.
Your breath is the most efficient tool to regulate your nervous system, it can heal you, release old trauma, send you deep into orgasmic bliss, or take you into altered states of consciousness. All it takes is some guidance. Whether you require a daily practice, or something deeper and more specific, reach out.
MEDICINE WORK
Medication might heal your symptoms, but plants will dig up the root cause of your dis-ease. Plant medicine has been used for thousands of years to heal the body, mind and soul. It is an invitation to your shadows to step out of hiding and bathe in the magic of the light. It is never an easy journey, but it is always a worthwhile one.
Having lived and dieted many times over in the jungles of Peru, training with the Matses tribe and connecting deeply with kambô, I have spent the last 6 years sharing this medicine among others. For more on kambô, visit my page Kambô-Sagrado.
SACRED INTIMACY
Real intimacy goes far beyond your capacity to make love to your partner. It requires that you strip back the armour that protects your heart from potential pain. To open yourself up to truth, to love. To step out over the edge, and place your foot on the invisible stepping stone, that leads you to bliss. The further you step, the more intimacy you experience.
How deep you go depends on how wide you open. For those brave enough to bare their souls, willing to reveal their deepest and often darkest truth, open themselves up to a world of the insurmountable and infinite pleasure…
“LET WHAT YOU DO, LIGHT UP THE SKY OF YOUR EXISTENCE.
LET IT BURN SO BRIGHT, THAT THE SIMPLE ACT OF LIVING INSPIRES OTHERS.”
He left his marriage and architecture career all behind and set out on a journey of healing and discovery. Guided by blind faith and a deep knowing that he has the power to create the life of his dreams, he relinquished control and logic and was pulled deep into the darkness of his blackest shadows and the pits of his own despair. Through silence, darkness, temples, ashrams, jungles, mountains and deserts, he began to discover that from the depths of his pain, would shine his light.
After a three and a half year journey across the globe, studying and facilitating the most transformative modalities he had ever experienced, (plant medicine, breath work, sexuality and men’s work) his purpose and vision appeared with crystal clear clarity. To help others step beyond the fear that restrains them from living the life they were born for.
ABOUT
Nic is a former retail architect turned architect of transformational experiences.
Using the most effective methodologies of healing and expansion he has personally experienced and subsequently trained in, to help others peel back the layers of culturally sanctioned, socially permeated models of behaviour and conditioning. To heal their relationship with themselves and with others. To help empower those yearning for clarity, confidence and connection, to rediscover the power of living on purpose, fully from their heart. To embody their truth. To transform their lives.
The masculine has this habit of waiting until the eleventh hour, before being motivated to change. Not until the sickness kicks in, the job disappears, the wife has an affair, the money runs dry or the habit becomes an addiction. Not until we feel the unadulterated obliteration of life, to be stripped raw, do we take heed. The masculine grows by challenge, and there is simultaneously no greater challenge or blessing, than to have to start over with a completely fresh, unsullied perspective on the infinite possibilities of life.
Like many men, Nic reached a point in life where his only satisfaction was found in the numbness of addiction. Unable to bear the pain of his existence, everything else suffered.
